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But the problem here is that Muslim men do not know how to articulate this very personal criteria appropriately.
In the above hadith Prophet Muhammad ﷺ is telling men that it's o.k.
Or it can be a deeper attraction which transcends into her "inner beauty", and this happens too, cliché though it may be.
Basically what attracts a man most is a woman's femininity.
This is why women are drawn to a mans' character first (inner beauty) while most men require a visual beauty, that's packed with stimulating contents.
When men say they are looking for "religious" wives they each refer to very different attributes.
She was the epitome of the complete woman.' A note from sh. As the hadith above suggests, a pretty face and religious background are excellent, but they will not necessarily indicate whether she gets easily abusive or jealous. Saying that though, men are not as concerned about looks or as worried as women can be.
Most Muslim men do not use status as a measure of success for potential wives but they do tend to look into it for reasons of prestige and influence.
However much a woman or her family earns does not really alter what Muslim men are really looking for.
During the Prophet's ﷺ time status was categorised into two. Just as women hope to marry into 'a good family', Muslim men love the idea of marrying into a 'religious family' - being connected to a woman whose family have ethical commitments and she herself is morally upright.
Be blessed - Imam Suhaib Webb, The Lesser Of 2 Evils, 2013* 'You see, we often misunderstand the hadith of the Prophet ﷺ where he said, “Marry a woman for four reasons…” This also means, “Marry a man for four reasons…” Unfortunately no one tells the sisters this, so they sometimes think men get to choose and they don’t.
The four reasons the Prophet ﷺ mentioned were beauty, wealth, family and deen (religion).