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INTJs, on the other hand, enjoy discussing the merits of the idea itself, in abstract terms, and treat the personal impact as a footnote.
This can come off as deeply insulting, without the INTJ realizing why.
This mental process, which I liken to metacognition, is what allows human beings to step back and take a bird’s-eye view of the world, including how other people think.
together, they find it easy to see past each other’s differences and identify underlying similarities.
This “learn by imitation” strategy means she can start a new project with nothing more than a vague plan, and—if she has good role models to look at—vastly outpace me at bringing it to fruition.
As a result, this pairing is a common one (as common as any pairing can be for such rare personality types).INTJs take note: the Thinker/Feeler divide has nothing to do with how intelligent either person is, but it is a In general, INTJs can come across as overly negative, picking apart the inefficiencies or shortcomings of any situation, and this can exhaust an INFJ.Meanwhile, INFJs tend to put out a lot of reassuring, supportive words to those they love, and these words can seem insincere or meaningless to an INTJ—who would much rather get results than a pat on the head.While each INFJ/INTJ couple is unique, here are some of the differences I see come up most often:.INFJs tend to see the personal side of any topic and don’t enjoy discussions that ignore this side.